Who is the true man?

In this world their are two kind of person one is coward who is weak and the other one is brave who has a strong determination. And this two kind of person are shown in this book, The Iliad wrote by Homer.
I saw this two traits in the book of the Iliad in the chapters 1 to 5. It shows to me that Menelaus is a greater man than Paris. I say this one because in the time that Paris and Menelaus fight for the sake of peace and where will Helen goes. There are things that I can say why Paris is a coward man. The first thing of Paris's weakness is when he accept the fight just because of the insult of his brother Hector. And the other thing Paris's weakness is when he  disappear  he just lies down in the bed with Helen instead of thinking about the war he made. Now I can say that  Menelaus is a honorable, brave, and noble man because he shows his honor by not losing any hope even he fight in the battle against a person whom with the god and goddesses in their side. Another thing is that he is not letting her wife goes to other man, and he will fight for it till death. This things shows that Menelaus is a noble man as a warrior, king, and as a husband.

I think the person who is a coward is ex-president Gloria-Macapagal Arroyo. I can say that thing because she run in the position of councilor in one of the district in Pampanga just to avoid to face the consequences she made when she still a president. And I think the trait of Menelaus is seen in our present President Noy Noy Aquino because he take the responsibilities in the crime "The Massacre in Maguindanao". In that case I can say he is a brave and making a greater man.